A Freethinker

 Is life about resisting death? Is it the art of not making mistakes in the face of pain? What does life have to say to us? It is the one who forces us to the worst path, The one who deceives in the worst way and then says you are the only one here. I'm torn now. I couldn't solve my problem anywhere, While I was looking for a cure, I fell for every medicine and drank it to my heart's content to ease my pain. The next thing I knew, I was poisoned. Now the pain of it. What was my crime, seeking a cure? Trying to convince myself that I'm happy? Mistakes I made while trying to learn what I needed? Is this how this order goes? Why do we resist then? We are subjected to so much pain to experience even one good thing. We are deceiving ourselves. This is not a life fellow, this is resisting to death. 

     We frequently become swept up in completing paperwork, looking for approval, and perhaps forgetting to stop and process everything. However, what's the deal? Every minute of every day is genuinely a treasure. And it's about time we began to handle it like such. I do not mean that be positive every minute with the smallest thing, we are human, and of course, we are ungrateful creatures of the world. However, do not forget that when you experience a day of sorrow, you will immediately miss your basic and monotonous tasks in your school or job. If you need extra drama in your life due to the boring days, just haunt a random hospital. Even the slightest health problem will make you miss your boring life. Because there is no boring day, rather there are days when you don't enjoy the little pleasures in life. These little pleasures are actually the greatest luxury of life because if such an unpredictable life hasn't caused you any bad surprises, you should just be grate...

Isn't life too short to define an identity and belong somewhere?       A basic human desire for acceptance and connection is the need to belong. However, due to our eagerness to fit in, we often lose sight of who we are and adhere to unsuitable roles. We fear the suffering from feeling alone and abandoned in the unknown. A person gets used to the place he moves to, and gets used to the absence of his loved ones. When a person is forced and years pass, he becomes a stranger even to the house he was born in. So, what belonging are we talking about? If a human being can neutralize his most precious memories in his heart with a new person and a new city, how can this ungrateful soul remain loyal to belonging? The only thing we have left from the time that has passed mercilessly is our failure to belong. But, what if accepting uncertainty is a better option than fearing it? What if identity fluidity is actually a strength rather than a weakness?  Could it be that the esse...

 Balance in Relationships Ordu, Türkiye      In this day and age, when gaining trust is the most difficult thing, why do people fail to fulfill their responsibilities and cause their friends to lose trust? Doesn't acting disloyal scare people? Who loves you like that? The balance of giving and receiving is the most fundamental of a healthy relationship, this is valid both materially and spiritually. The coffee you ordered and the money you lent should be returned in the same way so that your credit will be high next time. You should feel the same love you receive so that you will not have difficulty giving it back.       Each connection, whether it be romantic, familial, or friendly, is built on trust. The knowledge that we can depend on one another binds us together. When this trust is violated, it can result in permanent harm and leave scars that remain long after the event. Why take a chance then?      The intricate relationship ...

C omplexities of Existence.     What happens when memories become less fresh and only the sensation related to the memories is strikingly vivid? We are the culmination of those memories, they create our identity. This investigation explores the deep intricacies of time, the places where the living and the dead merge, and the way that death can change the commonplace into something both magical and priceless. The weakest link of human beings is their passion when something slips out of their hands.      Suppose we have two men, one living and one about to die. Which one do you think is more lively, for which the memories are fresher? How does a dead man keep his memories fresh? Dying, sadness, and vivid fresh memories, are the paradox of life. The living man, grounded in the here and now, is prone to thinking back on the past. Although they are not as new, memories cause a sense of connection to the past. In contrast, the dying man imagines rather than remem...

    In a society where appearances frequently provide the first impression, the idea of beauty plays a nuanced and intricate role in influencing how we live. We cannot underestimate the importance of appearance. As a woman, many walls can easily be destroyed if your beauty standards fit the person you are trying to convince. There are also some bitter realities you have to face about your beauty. I know these issues are so sensitive to confess, but never a truer word spoken.  The Hardships of Beauty: A Realistic View Superficial Judgments:      Although attractive, beauty can result in superficial evaluations. Based only on appearance, people may draw conclusions about someone's personality, level of IQ, or other qualities. Therefore, in such a word, being blond is so hard especially if you are a person who loves academia and tries to be the best in her field.  In movies, we see a cliche of dump blonde beauty. This is just one example, there are m...

  The Overwhelming Pursuit of Productivity      First of all, with social media taking over, apps like Instagram have an unequaled hold on our lives, influencing our ideas of what makes a "perfect day" and the pinnacle of productivity. The growth of celebrities pushing extreme health routines has created a society that prioritizes perfect productivity, faultless mornings, and a steadfast dedication to ideal well-being. However, the intense strain and unease felt by those trying to live up to these idealized norms are frequently hidden by this unrelenting quest for perfection. The Obsessive Pursuit for Productivity      I need to say that you do not have to be perfect. Although encouraging healthy practices has good intentions, the health craze that Instagram brought about has unintentionally made the ideal unachievable for the average individual. Feelings of inadequacy and a persistent sense of not meeting expectations might result from the pressure to...