A Freethinker

     We frequently become swept up in completing paperwork, looking for approval, and perhaps forgetting to stop and process everything. However, what's the deal? Every minute of every day is genuinely a treasure. And it's about time we began to handle it like such. I do not mean that be positive every minute with the smallest thing, we are human, and of course, we are ungrateful creatures of the world. However, do not forget that when you experience a day of sorrow, you will immediately miss your basic and monotonous tasks in your school or job. If you need extra drama in your life due to the boring days, just haunt a random hospital. Even the slightest health problem will make you miss your boring life. Because there is no boring day, rather there are days when you don't enjoy the little pleasures in life. These little pleasures are actually the greatest luxury of life because if such an unpredictable life hasn't caused you any bad surprises, you should just be grate...

Isn't life too short to define an identity and belong somewhere?       A basic human desire for acceptance and connection is the need to belong. However, due to our eagerness to fit in, we often lose sight of who we are and adhere to unsuitable roles. We fear the suffering from feeling alone and abandoned in the unknown. A person gets used to the place he moves to, and gets used to the absence of his loved ones. When a person is forced and years pass, he becomes a stranger even to the house he was born in. So, what belonging are we talking about? If a human being can neutralize his most precious memories in his heart with a new person and a new city, how can this ungrateful soul remain loyal to belonging? The only thing we have left from the time that has passed mercilessly is our failure to belong. But, what if accepting uncertainty is a better option than fearing it? What if identity fluidity is actually a strength rather than a weakness?  Could it be that the esse...

 Balance in Relationships Ordu, Türkiye      In this day and age, when gaining trust is the most difficult thing, why do people fail to fulfill their responsibilities and cause their friends to lose trust? Doesn't acting disloyal scare people? Who loves you like that? The balance of giving and receiving is the most fundamental of a healthy relationship, this is valid both materially and spiritually. The coffee you ordered and the money you lent should be returned in the same way so that your credit will be high next time. You should feel the same love you receive so that you will not have difficulty giving it back.       Each connection, whether it be romantic, familial, or friendly, is built on trust. The knowledge that we can depend on one another binds us together. When this trust is violated, it can result in permanent harm and leave scars that remain long after the event. Why take a chance then?      The intricate relationship ...