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Reflections on Memories, Death, and Regret.

C omplexities of Existence.     What happens when memories become less fresh and only the sensation related to the memories is strikingly vivid? We are the culmination of those memories, they create our identity. This investigation explores the deep intricacies of time, the places where the living and the dead merge, and the way that death can change the commonplace into something both magical and priceless. The weakest link of human beings is their passion when something slips out of their hands.      Suppose we have two men, one living and one about to die. Which one do you think is more lively, for which the memories are fresher? How does a dead man keep his memories fresh? Dying, sadness, and vivid fresh memories, are the paradox of life. The living man, grounded in the here and now, is prone to thinking back on the past. Although they are not as new, memories cause a sense of connection to the past. In contrast, the dying man imagines rather than remem...

The Realities Beyond Skin Deep

    In a society where appearances frequently provide the first impression, the idea of beauty plays a nuanced and intricate role in influencing how we live. We cannot underestimate the importance of appearance. As a woman, many walls can easily be destroyed if your beauty standards fit the person you are trying to convince. There are also some bitter realities you have to face about your beauty. I know these issues are so sensitive to confess, but never a truer word spoken.  The Hardships of Beauty: A Realistic View Superficial Judgments:      Although attractive, beauty can result in superficial evaluations. Based only on appearance, people may draw conclusions about someone's personality, level of IQ, or other qualities. Therefore, in such a word, being blond is so hard especially if you are a person who loves academia and tries to be the best in her field.  In movies, we see a cliche of dump blonde beauty. This is just one example, there are m...

The Weight of Expectations

  The Overwhelming Pursuit of Productivity      First of all, with social media taking over, apps like Instagram have an unequaled hold on our lives, influencing our ideas of what makes a "perfect day" and the pinnacle of productivity. The growth of celebrities pushing extreme health routines has created a society that prioritizes perfect productivity, faultless mornings, and a steadfast dedication to ideal well-being. However, the intense strain and unease felt by those trying to live up to these idealized norms are frequently hidden by this unrelenting quest for perfection. The Obsessive Pursuit for Productivity      I need to say that you do not have to be perfect. Although encouraging healthy practices has good intentions, the health craze that Instagram brought about has unintentionally made the ideal unachievable for the average individual. Feelings of inadequacy and a persistent sense of not meeting expectations might result from the pressure to...

Surround Yourself with Equals

  The Importance of Choosing Friends Wisely      If you allow people who are not your equals to be your friends, they will only use you. You are at a different level and they will want to use your time, energy, and family to help you get to your level. In such a short time, someone really loves you just because they admire you, no, of course, this is nonsense. To reach your level, he will hold you where you are and maybe he will drop you and reach the same level. Moreover , people who are not suitable for you may insist on their wishes and not ask for permission to enter your space, not because they truly love you, but because they will exploit you and use you as a way to success because they are blinded by ambition, so they can even exploit your environment and get inside you even more. You may find that they become rude to spend time with you.  One of the most difficult things in this life is to discern people's intentions. Although real and sincere friendship...